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OUR CREDO
We need not walk alone.
We are The Compassionate Friends.
We reach out to each other with love,
with understanding, and with hope.
The children we mourn
have died at all ages and from many
different causes,
but our love for them unites us.
Your pain becomes my pain,
just as your hope becomes my hope.
We come together from all walks of life,
from many different circumstances.
We are a unique family because we
represent many races,
creeds, and relationships.
We are young, and we are old.
Some of us are far along in our grief,
but others still feel a grief so fresh
and so intensely painful
that they feel helpless and see no hope.
Some of us have found our faith to be a
source of strength,
while some of us are struggling to find
answers.
Some of us are angry, filled with guilt
or in deep depression,
while others radiate an inner peace.
But whatever pain we bring
to this gathering of The Compassionate
Friends,
it is pain we will share,
just as we share with each other
our love for the children who have died.
We are all seeking and struggling
to build a future for ourselves,
but we are committed
to building a future together.
We reach out to each other in love
to share the pain as well as the joy,
share the anger
as well as the
peace,
share the faith as well as the doubts,
and help each other to grieve as well as to grow.
We Need Not Walk Alone.
We Are The Compassionate Friends.
©2007

Siblings Walking
Together
(Formerly The Sibling Credo)
We are the surviving siblings of The
Compassionate Friends.
We are brought together by the deaths of
our brothers and sisters.
Open your hearts to us, but have
patience with us.
Sometimes we will need the support of
our friends.
At other times we need our families to
be there.
Sometimes we must walk alone, taking our
memories with us,
continuing to become the individuals we
want to be.
We cannot be our dead brother or sister;
however, a special part of them lives on
with us.
When our brothers and sisters died, our
lives changed.
We are living a life very different from
what we envisioned,
and we feel the responsibility to be
strong even when we feel weak.
Yet we can go on because we understand better than many others
the value of family and the precious gift of life.
Our goal is not to be the forgotten mourners that we sometimes are,
but to walk together to face our tomorrows as surviving siblings of
The Compassionate Friends.
©The
Compassionate Friends


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